What's in it for you?

Most people know exactly what topics they want to read about on a blog and others... well... they kind of stumble onto blogs and stay there (or not!). I started reading blogs once I knew I'd be planning a wedding and as a side addiction, I read the blogs of people who also have terminal diagnoses. I don't think I am morbid, per se. Sometimes it feels good knowing "I'm not the only one."  And buh-leeeeeve me, I'm not. So what's in it for you? Be happy to tell you!

 Well, first, I'd like to say, this blog already feels like a haven for me, so it will be filled with stuff for you too. I'm planning a wedding, and if you are here, you just might be too. Secondly, I want to try to have the Indeed Fam's back on a few things...
1. My wedding isn't going to cost more than $5000 (yes, total!) and it's going to be fabulous! How do I know? I've done it before (and for less I might add) for others on a Toiiiiiight budget. This is the first time I'm doing it for me. So somebody is going to find something I say helpful. And if people can deal with my intermittent randomness, then more power, love, joy, and encouragement to you. Plus! +++ I'm going to show you how I'm going to do it!
2. I plan to hold NOTHING back. I told you, this is my haven, I'll say what I want! That being said...some people may get pissed. That's fine. Just take from it what you will in most cases I feel.
3. I hoping to show SOMEONE what it looks like to stare death in the face and yell HA! I fooled you! My body is NOT going to beat my soul and I hope you find some insight and encouragement where you need it.
4. I'm going to be active! You ask me something expect to get an answer! I always hated seeing someone ask a question in a comment post and it seems NO ONE answers. Ugggh!
5. i'm going to show you how to be frugal without being cheap, discerning without being a BRIDEZILLA, and  a web search DEEEEVAAAAH! LOL

Hope that you hang out and see how EVERYTHING turns out. Laugh with me, cry with me, maybe even pray with me... I got your back.